Gossip Not Just Females

You know how you hear how women just love to talk? Gossip with one another? Ah but it is not just a gender category, males do the same

Yesterday I was listening to someone tell me something. They were amazed that the person that was gossiping was a male. Telling everything he knew and to the wrong person. When the person that he was gossiping about confronted him, he did actually admit yes he was talking behind their backs.

Now, usually gossip is harmless. Telling the wrong person is harmful Especially when you know it. The gossip that was spread could and might create such a problem that someone could get hurt-Physically. That is wrong.

Especially when you are told something because they trust you. Why would you spill the proverbial beans? Wow.

This has just been one of those past few days to awaken in me a reminder of how some people are. Not surprised really. Just disappointed. The big mouth had always been one to not talk about anyone. If you told them something as a friend that is where it remained. Such a personality change. A shame really as he was a semi-honest person. Now, he reminds me so much like a couple that he works around. Stirring up trouble. Or is that they feel the need to control situations that they create? Treating those people involved as puppets, while they sit and laugh?

If someone gets hurt by their actions, this is another shame on you!

Men gossip as much as women. Maybe for different reasons? Maybe not. I just htink that it is human nature stepping in. BUT keep it to yourself

OR don't trust those that you think are your friends.

I really dislike drama queens. Male or females